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But for the most part, there is a way to stay in touch. Insist to pick him up when he's had too many all-nighters in a row. He needs it.t know when he will be finished, and it wont be a good day. Know which associates he likes working with and which he despises. Girls who try to schedule plans with banker boyfriends have no idea how much strain they're putting on him and on the relationship. But he cant because his schedule is not his to control and it WILL change with no notice at all. Its full of stress and day-old suits and negative emotions.Today some successful career women are doing the same.Sometimes they pick men who are less educated but more nurturing, romantic, supportive and playful. SOMEONE WITH TIME: Many bankers (male or female) are heavily work focused and have little time for domestic pursuits, fun, planning vacations etcetera.When we first started dating he told me that I need to understand that work can be crazy at times, however as of last week I have never had to grasp the full meaning of his words.He wants to get a VP promotion and is currently working on a massive deal that was supposed to be wrapped up today, yet more work came up.
We recall the DABA girls (Dating a Banker Anonymous) covered in the NY Times who started a group for girlfriends of bankers during the recession.Every other relationship from his analyst class has failed except ours. You also need to admire and respect the hard work that your partner's doing, otherwise you'll always be resentful. Let go of the small things and focus on the big ones.For me, his ambition and work ethic are part of the attraction. He dedicates every bit of free time from work to me instead of himself and I accept that his work is not his fault and to not take it out on him. - I don't mind if he misses dinners/lunches etc in favour of weddings and birthdays; choose your battles! It's easy to lose sight of friendships and family when in relationships; I kept mine intact and I have a lot of time to devote to them, which is a good thing in itself.Many say they’d rather date teachers or some exotic trapeze artist–anything different from what they already do.