Dating a cop Edno s cam free
I, personally, do not have a problem with this (hence why it’s also a pro), but I understand that some people may not be chill with guns. It’s not that he/she doesn’t want to spend time with you, but he/she is probably still used to even having another person around…
There’s nothing wrong with that, but if you’re super spontaneous and want to do all these fun things on a whim, you have to understand that your honey PROBABLY isn’t going to be down with that.
It was definitely an area of conflict in our relationship.
On the flip side, I’ve heard friends complain that their law-enforcement partners always go out drinking with their work buddies (sometimes to access) to blow off steam.
The intensity of their job can have differing effects on a relationship in both good and ways.
It’s the police’s job to protect citizens from the dangers of drugs and alcohol.
Some of the pros & cons may apply to you, some may not – and that’s fine. I’ve been lucky enough to find something that I had no intentions of even looking for – which leads me to believe that the saying is true – The best things come alone when you stop looking for them.
give it some time, he/she will eventually ease up (maybe). Personally, I love being the girlfriend of a police officer – it’s like having my very own personal super hero.
With that said, these are the kinds of difference that could make or break any potential couple – regardless of what their profession is. If you’re looking to date someone who is always home at the same time each day, dating a police officer is probably not for you.
Most people who work in law enforcement do shift work, meaning they might be at work while you’re sleeping and vice versa, and this schedule can change depending on the week/month.Between the shift work, the long hours and dealing with dangerous, life and death situations – being a cop can be very stressful.To quote a cop I once dated, “Every day I go to work, I witness the breakdown of society.” Even if the person you’re dating is positive and upbeat, you have to keep in mind that many police see and experience some pretty grizzly stuff on a day to day basis – and sometimes it’s hard to let it go at the end of the day. You’re dating someone who puts their life on the line every workday to keep other people safe.It’s no secret that there are pros & cons to dating in general, and I’ll be the first to admit that my cons definitely outweighed the pros.