Dating a man with no money
He just recently began sharing these financial problems with me and I know it’s the reason why he’s been asking me out less than when we first started dating.I’m not a very experienced dater so I’m unsure as to how to deal with this situation.
I’m going to make the assumption that this isn’t a ploy on his part to go on “cheap dates”.
If you handle him like he has a problem that needs to be solved, he’ll feel like it really is a problem and he’ll feel even worse.
On the other hand, if you accept him, he’ll probably see things for the illusion that they really are.
I’m not saying that guys should be cheap, but you and I both know that the amount of money a guy spends on a date isn’t going to change how you feel about him in your heart.
I’m not saying that you wouldn’t like him spending money on you, but it has nothing to do with love or that butterflies-in-your-stomach type feeling. A lot of guys fall into the trap of measuring their self-worth based upon how much money they make, what kind of job they have and their overall financial situation.I like this man very much, I enjoy his company and he is incredibly kind.I am fine having dates that are economical and have let him know this.He’ll (eventually) see that it doesn’t really matter and he’s making an emotional issue out of nothing.