Dating a woman who is going through a divorce
By Tracy Achen If you are thinking about dating during divorce ... You may think that you are free to start a new relationship once the decision is made to separate or divorce.
But it is wise to hold off on the dating scene until after your divorce is finalized for a number of strategic, legal, and emotional reasons.
This will put your boyfriend smack-dab in the middle of your divorce, which is a quick way to put a damper on your new relationship.
You need to be especially careful if you have children from your marriage.
Imagine how differently you will act when you are not under extreme stress and when your life is more stable.Strategic reasons not to date before divorce Emotions are raw during a divorce.When you start seeing someone else, it is like rubbing salt into your husband's wounds.Emotional reasons not to date during divorce When you are separated or going through a divorce, the attention that a boyfriend shows you can feel like a breath of fresh air and boost your self-esteem.