Dating a younger man with kids
This type of mentality can not only be refreshing, but it also can help lay the groundwork for a creative and happy relationship.
“For instance, if you want to move to Brazil, or adopt six children, or plant a vineyard on your property, or live in an igloo, someone with an open mind and less baggage may think this is a great idea,” she noted, “whereas someone who's older and more set in their ways may think you're amusing — and irresponsible, as well as wildly unrealistic.” Put differently, if you’re itching for adventure or simply a change of scenery, dating younger may be the way to go. You may enjoy better sex It’s a biological fact that younger partners tend to have more sexual energy and stamina in the bedroom, Masini said.
If you find it odd that his favourite bands are Genesis and ELO, then you will need to decide whether you can get used to that, or whether you will feel increasingly isolated.
Also remember that older men will have the same dilemma with any references you make – they may make them feel old and distant from you.
We’re not saying older men will be completely inflexible but you shouldn’t think you can change their ways once you’re in a relationship.
We use cultural references to express who we are and where we’ve come from.
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You may enjoy the power play Having been out in the world gives older partners a cache that many younger partners love and seek out.
If you’re a woman interested in dating a younger man, your partner may also be more open to using a surrogate, Masini said.Data seem to support that idea: A 2003 AARP survey of about 3,500 single men and women ages 40 to 69 found about 66 percent of men want to date younger women and 34 percent of women want to date younger men.EXPERTS SAY THIS IS THE BEST WAY TO FLIRT Celebrities like actor and director Mel Gibson, whose partner Rosalind Ross is 35 years his junior, and director Sam Taylor-Johnson, whose husband, actor Aaron Taylor-Johnson, is 24 years younger than her, apparently agree with that notion.“I hear from lots of people looking for love, unsuccessfully, that they’ve got a restrictive list of ‘filters,’ including age,” Masini said.