Dating the one month barrier
She says it’s 100% normal for us to both date multiple people at once until we decide together to make the relationship exclusive. Agreeing to date someone while he or she dates other people signals that it is somehow acceptable not to respect or value you.
At a minimum, it is a waste of your time, as more likely than not, non-exclusive relationships peter out. It is rude and disrespectful to be subject to such behavior. Dating someone while they’re dating other people is the same thing.
So you hang in there with anxiety and hope while another month goes by.In the future, from the first date, let the guy know what you want and need: exclusivity. Even if you’ve missed your opportunity to set your boundaries on the first date, do it now.Tell him you won’t date him while he’s seeing other women. He might say, “I can’t commit right now.” You’re not asking him to.You’re just requiring that while he’s dating you, he’s dating you and you alone. ” Tell him, “I want to give you my full attention because I value and respect you.
I want to be with you without the distraction of other men.Studies show that too many options actually make it harder to choose.Contrary to expectations, providing more varieties and flavors and choices of a product to consumers is not beneficial to people and does not lead to more sales. When we aren’t focusing on one person at a time, we can lose the most important “sale” of our life!Women from 20 to 60 are confused by the term "Independent". City life vs the Farm life, women not working with their husband together inn the same work and home arena, has produced an emotionally inept adult children syndrome, a sickness.