Real dating horror stories
AND he still just gave me a B for the semester, the creep. This was years ago and I was still new to blogging and hadn’t yet figured out the difference between sharing a persona and sharing myself.
Then, there was this one guy I went out with who got mad when I didn’t kiss him at the end of the date and who proceeded to text and email me over the course of several weeks, calling me a tease, bitch, whore (really? The latter may make for more raw, authentic writing, but the former creates some necessary boundaries between the writer and potential stalker guys she didn’t kiss on the first date.
While there are scammers everywhere, I know of far more decent Filipinas( known to me personally) than I know decent American men to introduce them to...of the men who I know that are very experienced living in both countries rate Filipinas as generally a far better bet than Thai girls.
SPACE BALLS "I knew it: I'm surrounded by Assholes." Lol Being that there are 5:1 more pretty/sane/smart girl profiles on OK Cupid then Men: Well then OK CUPID: Im Bisexual.
He showed up at my door with flowers, chocolate and a teddy bear, and he told me I looked “delicious enough to eat.” The rest of the date went downhill from there.
I can provide much more insight into SE Asia or Latin America. Dating western woman is definately not a confidence booster, and can lead to paranoia. You will run into a lot of frustration when you try to assume it is some kind of universal concept.
Further, the men in these accounts seem rather pathetic and easy targets for gold-diggers. However, I should mention that I am inspired by the dating success of guys on this forum. She could use some acting lessons, its like she's reading a cue card. The term courtship is far more accurate in many parts of the world. I think that's the final point people will take away from this.
I don't want to get raped if I go on an actual date.
If you have a relationship/dating question I can help answer, you can send me your letters at I’ve been lucky in that I haven’t had too many terrible dates.I have never felt like I was "dating" really..like "merging"..helping a really gorgeous girl out with her nympho problem (haha)... "It takes far less effort to find and move to the society that has what you want than it does to try to reconstruct an existing society to match your standards." - Harry Browne You gotta remember that the media thrives on bad news. If one has a penchant for Asian girls, you would be much MUCH better off in Thailand. The PI is hyper-Westernized and the disease of feminism is spreading. Believe me, the Philippines is a hell of a long ways from anything like the 51st state...because it has some westernized trappings, some are fooled into a sense of complacency, but then the full blooded orient with a layer of Latino rears its head...I think it might have beeen more like some kind of genetic destiny. The Philippines has its own American Department of Veterans Affairs office. If one has a penchant for Asian girls, you would be much MUCH better off in Thailand. Many aspiring expats find it is far more of a culture shock than they imagined.Lack of wisdom always has a high price and there is no vaccine against stupidity. Dating western woman is definately not a confidence booster, and can lead to paranoia. My GF's parents live in what is likely the most dangerous part of the Philippines- in Sulu. But the majority of men who date overseas say it is far BETTER than in America. That it's better to be surrounded by potential good and bad choices with the freedom to figure out your own course than it is to be surrounded with practically no good choices at all. In China you can still find golddiggers and bitchy, nagging harridans that make a mans life hell.