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Marriage is not for the individual but rather for the desire of the family.
If one decides to get married, they must get consent from the whole family.
As in Confucian values family and the customs of a family is placed above all.
Once the date is set the groom then sends a box to the bride which is known as a Ham. This is given to the bride in dedication to wed only one husband.
The wife is expected to keep this paper forever; upon death the papers are buried with the wife as well.
Traditional Korean weddings are based around and centered on traditional Confucian values.
Every aspect of the wedding, from the arrangement of the marriage to the ceremony and post celebrations, had important and elaborate steps to go along with them.
In ancient times, weddings (Honrye) were held in the bride's yard or house.